Lord Rama's Love: Between Laxman and Hanuman

The question of whom Lord Rama loved the most between Laxman and Hanuman is a complex one, with various interpretations in Hindu epics, particularly the Valmiki Ramayan. While some may argue that Lord Rama's love was equally distributed, the scriptural evidence offers insights into different kinds of bonds Rama shared with both Laxman and Hanuman.

Laxman: A Brotherly Bond

According to the Valmiki Ramayan, Laxman was the eldest brother of Lord Rama and their relationship was marked by a deep brotherly bond. Laxman was the avatar of Sheshnag, the serpent who supports Lord Vishnu.

Throughout the epic, there are multiple instances that showcase the strong bond between Lord Rama and Laxman. Laxman was always by Rama's side, accompanying him in his travels and missions. This loyalty was immense, as evidenced by an instance where Laxman was attacked by Meghnath, Ravana's son, and became unconscious. Lord Rama was devastated and expressed his sorrow, emphasizing that he would not return to Ayodhya until Laxman awoke. In one instance, Lord Rama even went so far as to state that Laxman was dearer to him than his wife, Sita. This proclamation underscores the depth of Rama's brotherly love.

Hanuman: A Devoted Messenger

Hanuman's relationship with Lord Rama was more of a-devotional nature. As the son of Vayu (Wind God) and the messenger to Ravana, Hanuman served Sugriva, but his mission was to support Rama in his quest to rescue Sita. At the time of Rama's coronation, Sita had given Hanuman a necklace as a token of appreciation for his unwavering support and help.

After Rama's coronation, instead of staying in Ayodhya, Hanuman returned to Kishkindha with Sugriva. In the Hanuman Chalisa, a devotional hymn in praise of Hanuman, there is a verse that states, ‘Tum mam priya bahartye sam bhai.’ This translates to 'You are like my dear brother Bharat,' indicating that Lord Rama cherished Hanuman as a brother.

Brotherly Love vs. Devotional Bond

The question of who was more loved by Lord Rama can be answered by considering the nature of their relationships. While Hanuman was a staunch and loyal devotee, Rama loved Laxman with the purest form of brotherly affection. As an avatar of Vishnu, Lord Rama was not bound by the normal human emotions but also demonstrated human feelings like love, sorrow, happiness, and anger.

Some scholars and believers might argue that Laxman's loyalty and companionship might make him more dear to Lord Rama. Some may even say that love for one's brother is inherently stronger than love for a devotee. However, this is purely a matter of personal interpretation and belief.

Conclusion

While there is no definitive answer to the question of whom Lord Rama loved the most between Laxman and Hanuman, the Valmiki Ramayan provides ample evidence of the deep bonds that existed between these characters. Both relationships were equally significant, each serving different yet essential roles in the epic. Whether it is the unwavering loyalty of Laxman or the profound devotion of Hanuman, these relationships reflect the multifaceted nature of human and divine love.

For many, understanding and interpreting these connections can offer insights into the complex nature of relationships and the different forms of love, both seen and unsaid.

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