The Eternal Spirit of Kindness: Genuine Niceness vs. Performative Genuineness

Is there still genuine niceness in the world, or do people only act nice for personal gain nowadays?

It's important to distinguish between genuine niceness and performative niceness. While some might argue that the world is filled with individuals who are only kind for personal benefits, the truth is much more nuanced. Throughout our lives, we encounter countless examples of genuine kindness and compassion from both philanthropists and everyday heroes.

Levels of Kindness

From philanthropists who donate large sums of money to charities, to the everyday superhero who helps an elderly person cross the street — kindness is everywhere. However, if you focus on someone's flaws, you will undoubtedly find them. This negative mindset not only harms your own health but also blinds you to the genuine niceness that surrounds us.

It's important to acknowledge and support those who are working hard to rewrite their minds and transform from negative, fear-driven individuals to positive, contented, empathetic ones. By doing so, these individuals add positive vibes to their lives and contribute to both their own health and the communities around them.

The Personal Cost of Kindness

Healthy individuals can effortlessly engage in acts of kindness without much effort. On the other hand, individuals who are not in good physical or mental health may find such acts challenging and draining. Therefore, they may resist performing such actions, as they do not find personal value in them. This often results in a surface-level, non-beneficial engagement in good deeds.

People can force themselves to be kind, but if the reasons behind these actions are not genuine, resentment towards others who pressure them for it might develop. The key to true autonomy and wellness lies in one's overall health and well-being.

Personal Growth and Resilience

Individuals who have experienced personal struggles, such as inner wounds and negativity, often find themselves in a state of constant fear and skepticism. Through personal growth and resilience, they can rewrite their negative scripts and become kinder, more self-reliant, and empathetic individuals. In doing so, they can contribute to a healthier and more positive community.

It's important to understand that the battle against one's inner demons is no easy feat. Once someone commits to overcoming such challenges, they often realize the strength they possess and are motivated to tackle other significant challenges in life.

The Existence of Good People

While there are no perfect individuals, good people do exist. The journey to becoming a better person is not about proving to others that your judgment is accurate but about personal growth and healing. Imposing your own rules on others can create an environment where they feel suffocated and unable to show their best selves.

Instead, focus on supporting and encouraging genuine niceness in others and within yourself. This involves understanding that the only real proof of good deeds is in the consistent actions and positive impact these deeds have on others. Remember, insanity is repeating the same actions that do not yield positive results, so shift your mindset towards a more positive and supportive approach.