What to Do with a Shiva Lingam Kept Aside at Home?

The Shiva Lingam is a revered symbol of Lord Shiva in Hinduism, representing the cosmic form and energy of the deity. Many devotees keep a Shiva Lingam at home for daily worship, but what should one do if they realize that it shouldn't be there, as per their beliefs?

Understanding the Shiva Lingam

The answer to this question varies depending on one's understanding of Hindu rituals and the specific context of the Shiva Lingam's current placement. Here, we explore the best course of action for a Shiva Lingam kept under a tulsi plant, and suggest ways to honor and respect the deity.

Mythical and Philosophical Context

There is no denying that Lord Shiva is a revered and powerful deity beyond mere rituals. However, many scriptures and traditions suggest that rituals and proper worship procedures help us connect more deeply with the divine. Shiva, as seen in many texts, is indeed a god who appreciates simplicity and true devotion over elaborate rituals. He is often referred to as Bholenath, meaning the one who is simple and easy to please.

From a Shavite perspective, which I follow, the essence of devotion lies in the practice of Aum Namah Shivaya, and daily rituals such as worshipping Shiv Tandav, chanting the Panchakshari, and reciting the Kaalbhairav Ashtakam. These practices are not about grandeur; they are about nurturing a deep and personal connection with the divine.

Proper Placement and Worship Procedures

When a Shiva Lingam is placed correctly, it is not simply a decorative object or a random item. It is a living symbol that requires love, affection, and proper placement. Here are some steps to follow:

1. Removal from Tulsi Plant

The first step is to remove the Shiva Lingam from beneath the tulsi plant. Tulsi, often referred to as holy basil, is traditionally associated with Lord Vishnu and its presence under a Shiva Lingam is considered inauspicious. Take care to clean the Shiva Lingam thoroughly after removing it.

2. Placement and Worship

Next, you can either keep the Shiva Lingam in your puja mandir or immerse it in the Godavari River:

In Your Puja Mandir: If there are no specific restrictions in your family tradition, you can keep the Shiva Lingam in your puja place. Ensure that the argha (the vessel that holds water for worship) of the Shiva Lingam points north and place an idol of Nandi (Shiva's bull vahana) next to it. Nandi should not be larger than the Shiva Lingam. Immersion: If immersion is the preferred method, you can take the Shiva Lingam to the Godavari River for immersion, provided it is done respectfully and in accordance with local customs.

Alternatively, if you own the Shiva Lingam and prefer not to have it at home, you could donate it to a temple priest, who can continue to perform regular pujas.

Conclusion

Shiva Lingam represents not just a deity, but the essence of devotion and simplicity. While there are many traditional methods for keeping and worshipping a Shiva Lingam, the key lies in the sincerity of one's intent and the respect for the divine.

Ultimately, the decision about what to do with a Shiva Lingam is a deeply personal one, guided by one's own understanding and spiritual practice. By keeping or donating it with love and devotion, we honor the immortal spirit of Lord Shiva.