Understanding the Royal Hierarchy: Why Meghan Markle Was Not Treated as a Princess

In discussions surrounding Meghan Markle’s time with the Royal Family, one common topic is the treatment she received. Many speculate or express disappointment over whether her lack of treatment as a Princess was due to her personal behaviors or a decision made consciously by the Royal Family. However, it's important to examine the context of royal protocol and the specific reasons behind the treatment she received.

Her Title and Role: Duke and Duchess vs Princess

First and foremost, it is crucial to distinguish between duke and princess. Meghan Markle, as the Duchess of Sussex, officially carries this title, which is bestowed upon her based on her husband, Prince Harry’s, position as a prince. While Prince Harry can be referred to as a rangefinder within the Royal Family, a Duchess is not automatically a princess.

It’s a common misconception to assume Meghan Markle, named Rachel Meghan, should be addressed as a princess due to her union with the heir to the throne. While she can adopt a styled title, such as Princess Henry, this is strictly based on her husband’s rank and not her own. The Royal Family follows a specific system of rank, and any protocol honoring her as a princess would stem from her personal actions and relationship with the monarchy.

Protocol within the Royal Family

Protocol within the Royal Family is highly structured and maintained on both formal and informal occasions. Probationary newcomers are generally welcomed warmly and shown the ropes, but the expectations for familiarity or a different level of treatment depend on the established hierarchy and protocol.

Princess Diana was treated with great respect upon her introduction to the family, as she was the wife of Prince Charles. In the case of Meghan Markle, her adjustment to life within the Royal Family includes learning the nuances of royal protocol, behavior, and communication. Despite the Royal Family's efforts to ease her transition, Meghan Markle did not always adhere to these standards.

Disobeying Royal Wishes: A Case Study

One well-documented instance is the discussion surrounding the couple's wedding vows. Queen Elizabeth II specifically requested that Meghan use her given name, Rachel, rather than her middle name, Meghan, during the wedding ceremony. Instead, Meghan refused to comply, indicating a level of defiance in her behavior.

Following the wedding, it became clear that Meghan preferred to be addressed as Meghan but would readily use the title Duchess of Sussex. This decision was widely reported, highlighting the contrast between the strict structure of royal protocol and the personal choices Meghan made.

Perception and Reality: Her Behavior as a Princess

Another element of the conversation is her perceived behavior as a Princess. While she was always treated with respect and courtesy as the Duchess of Sussex, her expectations were similar to those of any other member of the Royal Family. The disappointment expressed in her not acting as a Princess suggests a sharp contrast between her pre-monarchy lifestyle and the role she now inhabits.

Expectations for a Princess include not only the formal aspects of the role but also a deeper understanding and respect for the obligations and traditions associated with being royalty. Meghan Markle did not prepare herself adequately for this role, which is a reflection more on her own state of mind and preparation than on the ineffective treatment by the Royal Family.

Conclusion

The Royal Family's decision to not treat Meghan Markle as a Princess was a mix of protocol, respect, and the expectation that she would adhere to the established norms. While she was never treated as a Princess, the Royal Family did make efforts to integrate her into their lives. The lack of such treatment can be attributed to her personal behavior and expectations, rather than any conscious decision by the Royal Family to exclude her.

The challenges faced by Meghan Markle in navigating her new life as the Duchess of Sussex highlight the importance of understanding and respecting the intricacies of royal protocol. While her journey may have been challenging, the core issue remains rooted in a mismatch between her personal perceptions and the actual realities of her position within the Royal Family.